October 7
You Matter To Me Day
Interpersonal awareness observance on October 7 to encourage expressing appreciation and affirming the significance of people in one's life.
Linda Jew
Individual Initiative
Linda Jew created You Matter to Me Day in 2010 after losing a close friend and his son in an accident, having never expressed how much they mattered to her. She selected October 7 because it coincided with the New Moon in Libra that year, symbolizing new beginnings in relationships.
Introduction
On October 7th, celebrate You Matter To Me Day – a special day dedicated to expressing our appreciation and gratitude to those who make an impact in our lives. This day was created in 2013 with the intention of recognizing the importance of relationships and how much we need each other during difficult times. It's a great opportunity to show your loved ones how much they mean to you and remind them that no matter what, you'll always be there for them. So don't forget to take some time out of your day on October 7th to tell someone "You Matter To Me"!
You Matter To Me Day Timeline
How to Celebrate You Matter To Me Day
1
Write a letter
Take the time to write a letter, whether it be a thank you note or a simple letter of appreciation. Let someone know why they matter to you and how much they mean to you.
2
Give a gift
We all love receiving gifts, and You Matter To Me Day is the perfect time to let someone know that they matter to you. It could be something small like a card or something more meaningful like a special item.
3
Plan an outing
Go out and have some fun with the one who matters to you. Plan a picnic, go for a walk, take in a movie, or simply just spend some quality time together.
4
Share your appreciation
Take the time to share your appreciation with someone who matters a lot to you. You can do this in person, via text or email, or even through social media.
5
Send a bouquet of flowers
Nothing says “You Matter To Me” better than a bouquet of flowers. Choose their favorite type of flowers and make sure to include a heartfelt note with it.
Why We Love You Matter To Me Day
It's a reminder of our importance
On You Matter To Me Day, we're reminded of our significance and that the people around us care deeply about us. It's a day to put aside our busy lives, take a moment to appreciate each other, and celebrate the positive impact that we can have on one another's lives.
It helps build relationships
We all need someone to be there for us in our times of need, and reminding ourselves that we matter can help strengthen existing connections with family, friends and colleagues. By taking time out of each day to acknowledge our importance to those around us, we can create deeper bonds and better understand each other.
It encourages self-love
You Matter To Me Day is an opportunity to practice self-love and acceptance. It reminds us to focus on the things that make us unique and celebrate them - no matter how small or trivial they may seem. It also serves as a reminder that it’s ok to ask for help when needed, because we are worthy of genuine respect and support from those around us!
Holiday Dates
| Year | Date | Day |
|---|---|---|
| 2023 | Oct 7 | Saturday |
| 2024 | Oct 7 | Monday |
| 2025 | Oct 7 | Tuesday |
| 2026 | Oct 7 | Wednesday |
| 2027 | Oct 7 | Thursday |



